I rushed home from two meetings, noodle lunch with a friend and a brief diversion into Armani Exchange. We were having another Friday night dinner party. Where I would cook an Indian meal in wild panic, shower and look relaxed just in time for the doorbell. Normally, I am star of the show at these evenings. But this time, our neighbour's 60-something young mum stole my thunder. We made caipirinha. Smashed glasses. And doubled up over the Kali Dal, Bhuna Gosht and Aubergine Raita as she regaled us with stories of learning how to drive in Indonesia, growing illegal herbs at home and a chance meeting with Gary Glitter. Eddy, Absolutely Fabulous, we gasped before falling off our chairs and finally calling it a night. Recovered from the evening of curry, I searched my cookbooks for inspiration on Sunday. It had to be Besan Ladoo a ghee-laced, sugar-soaked, decadent Indian sweet. Tipped as a great snack for children, by a mum in one of my cookbooks. Strange, that. I'm no expert, but to me they're the sort of thing that you'd give your child if you wanted them to fly around the room at midnight. But then again, wouldn't life be rather dull without unconventionally fabulous mamas?
In a small non-stick pot, bring half the ghee to heat over a low flame. When it is warm, add the besan and stir well mixing it in.
Keep adding the rest of the ghee bit by bit and then stir in the sugar, ground pistachios and cardamoms.
Now stir this mixture well for about 20 minutes until the raw smell of the besan disappears to fill your kitchen with a glorious aroma.
Leave the mixture to cool slightly. When it’s warm enough to handle, fashion little balls out of it and leave to set in your fridge until cool and hard. Store in an airtight container and keep them all for yourselves!